This week's Love Letter comes from the California desert
Now that I have been widowed for some time, will I find a loving and lasting relationship again?
Dear Mr. A.
My cards show first and foremost you are still grieving.
Wait. You may still be grieving but even more so it's that you still think of yourself as a widower. There's a difference.
You are still wearing black funeral clothes in your heart. So this is not a NO but the cards are telling me you have to CHANGE YOUR CLOTHES.
Of course, we know this is not literal. It's a metaphor. And yet.
Let me ask you a weird question: do you have near you the clothes you wore in your love's last days? Last moments?
Something about the clothes themselves keeps showing me up for me here thus I am compelled to ask.
As a remedy for you I recommend fresh cut flowers, as often as possible and that you make for yourself beautiful bouquets in your kitchen or dining area at least once a week.
This isn't a love spell but a step in the right direction towards shifting your energy.
And as for whether you will find love again my cards absolutely say YES. I cannot give you a time or date. I think it's not around the corner to be honest but after a year or so. A man with a warm loving family and possibly even children because I see extended family around you which may be close friends perhaps.
But yes I do see you sharing love and home again with someone.
In the meantime, I also recommend you explore what you think keeps you prisoner. What keeps you separate from love. Do you feel you do not deserve or that you would betray your husband? Perhaps you are still so attached to him you cannot imagine loving another ever. I do see the attachment is pure and solid but there is a twist to it. I wonder if you feel you should or cannot although part of you of course longs to feel that closeness again. I believe you must wrestle with these chains and set yourself free if you are ever to reach the destination that I see for you, my dear.
Good luck & much love to you,